I Saw Her Husband Cheating
It’s a common dilemma! You’re out and about minding your own business and you spot someone you know and they’re not with who they’re suppose to be. They’re with someone else and they’re clearly having an affair!
Your thoughts are “I saw her husband cheating, should I tell the wife?”
Well as with any dilemma there are real and compelling reasons why you could either do one or the other.
“I Saw Her Husband Cheating” – Shooting the Messenger
Telling the unsuspecting wife means you could end up having both barrels blasted at you from a wife who is not ready to face what her spouse is up. She might have built herself a safe little emotional cubby hole where she goes and hides out from the reality of her life and anyone who attempts to blast her out into the reality of what is actually going on, is going to get it!
Plus, ask yourself this, is she going to believe what you’re saying to her? Again denial is a powerful tool when you’re in a desperate place.
“I Saw Her Husband Cheating” – Are You Ready For the Mayhem?
If you do tell her and she confronts him with what she’s found out, you’re pretty much guaranteed to have your name thrown around in the ensuing mayhem.
Again, you could end up being the bad guy that the two of them unite against and turn their anger and range on. So before you go jumping in doing ‘the right thing’ ask yourself if you’re ready to be the fall guy for their woes.
“I Saw Her Husband Cheating” – But it’s Not My Business
Many people faced with what to do after witnessing something they shouldn’t have, take the stance that it isn’t their business and they’re not getting involved. Which is completely understandable given what could happen if you tell the unsuspecting wife.
If you decide that you’d rather stay out of it don’t beat yourself and feel guilty about your decision. You are not responsible for anyone elses choices or decisions.
“I Saw Her Husband Cheating” – Should I Have a Quiet Word With Him?
For many this is the solution they opt for. Having a private word with the cheating husband to warn him that you know and that he better fix up and either end the relationship, or tell his wife, is not a bad strategy to opt for.
It removes you from the full on fire and wrath of the wife, but talking to the cheating husband also makes you feel that you have actually done something!
Whatever you decide think clearly and long and hard before you go jumping in with what you know!
