“How Can I Tell If My Husband Is Cheating?”
A friend asked me the other day, “How can I tell if my husband is cheating?” and the question surprised me. I thought of all the people to ask me that I never would’ve thought she was. I looked at their marriage as 100% rock solid and secure! But then, no marriage is immune from cheating if things start going wrong and they are left to go wrong.
So, I gave her a check list of signs to see if she really thought her husband was cheating.
- How’s your sex life? Has it become less or non existent?
- Is he keeping different hours that make no sense to you?
- Is he fixated on his cell/mobile and taking secret calls at weird times?
- Has he bought new clothes, underwear?
- Does he have times of the day that he can’t account for and for which he will not or cannot give you an explanation.
I had some more pointers to give to her, but by the time I had got to number 5 on my list I didn’t need to go any further. The shock realization on her face was all that I needed to know that she was now sure that her husband was cheating on her.
Here’s the thing, asking the question “How can I tell if my husband is cheating?” is one thing, being prepared for any answer that comes your way is another thing.
So make sure that when you go looking for an answer that you’re prepared for what that answer might be.
The last thing I said to my friend was to be 100% sure and have actual proof BEFORE she went and confronted her husband. I suggested she use Reverse Phone Detective to get the proof on a cell number she was suspicious about, but only if she was again sure proof is what she wanted.
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