Cheating Spouse – Anonymous Tip!

So, you’re going about your business and you get an anonymous email that your spouse is cheating!  You listen, you’re shocked, your blood is boiling and your hands are shaking.

But as you take time to think you start to wonder and you basically begin to ask yourself if you really do have a cheating spouse or is someone out there trying to cause trouble for you and your spouse?

Did You Get Any Real Information?

Ask yourself this, did the anonymous emailer give you any real facts that you can check on and verify for yourself?  Did they say something like “I know he/she wasn’t working late on Tuesday night!”  If your spouse wasn’t with you on that night and they said they were working late, then that is a very easy situation to check on.

Please be aware though, that just because your spouse might have found their way to a bar late on Tuesday night, it doesn’t necessarily mena that there’s cheating going on.  It could simply be a well needed drink with friends that ran over!

Still, it’s suspicious activity.  See if your anonymous informant has anymore help.  And start learning how other people have caught cheating partners, so that you can have a solid method to go on if you need it – How to Catch a Cheater.

What you can do when you get an anonymous tip like this, is to reply back to the emailer and ask them a few more questions about what they know.  Not only because you might get some more info about what’s going on with your spouse, but because you can begin to examine whether or not the informant really does know anything or is simply making trouble.

If your informant knows details about your spouse’s movements, then you know that they at least know where and what your spouse is up to and you really need to ask yourself why they would know all this!

So, do your best to get as much information as you can and then weigh up that information for yourself with what you know of your spouse’s movements and habits.

I would recommend that you don’t ask your spouse anything at this stage and that you don’t accuse your spouse!

Dealing with an anonymous tip off that tells you your spouse is cheating can be tricky!  And before you accuse, make sure you have ALL the facts!

You may be able to come up with some questions to ask your spouse that get an alarmed response, or else a ho-hum response.  Usually, you can measure the accuracy of your questions by how emotional your partner becomes with their response!

If you really want to catch a cheating spouse, you need a workable system to help you get this right!  Afterall,there’s a lot at stake here and you don’t want to make a wrong move and live to regret it!

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