You Don’t Have to Live in a Sexless Marriage
A sexless marriage is a tough marriage to endure for anyone. Statistics show us that on average, a couple who are living in a sexless marriage are living in an unhappy marriage and it usually is only a matter of time before one of those involved asks for a divorce and walks out.
Of course, there are no absolutes. There are a few marriages, where the couple have come to an understanding about how they want their marriage to work. The agreed no sex marriage, that these few and far between couples agree on, work, because they both completely believe in what they have agreed to.
If one of the party in a sexless marriage has doubts, regrets or down right objections to living in a no sex marriage, then there will be problems. Having sex, making love, whatever you want to call it, is a natural human form of expression and for many, both men and women, it is goes against everything that they believe in and feel to live in and unhappy marriage where there is no sex.
If you are in this kind of sexless marriage, where you have gone along with your spouse to keep the peace, or because you hoped your spouse would change their mind eventually, then you have to sit down with your spouse and let them know how you feel. You cannot bottle up your feelings and your physical needs to suit your spouse. so if you feel that you have been coerced into a sexless marriage, then speak up.
If there was no agreement to the no sex marriage, things just fizzled out and slowly declined into nothing, then you have to stand up and again take the lead in putting back the passion into your marriage. This kind of sexual decline between a couple who have been together for a while is very common. However, if you or your spouse is struggling with the lack of a physical relationship in your marriage, then again, you are headed for major problems and maybe even divorce.
Again, talk to your spouse about rekindling your sexual passion for each other. It could be that your spouse feels the same as you and doesn’t know how to bring up the subject. One of you has to start the conversation and as you are the one reading this article, then you must be the one to start the discussion.
The fact is that a sexless and unhappy marriage is usually not a marriage that will last. Start today and begin changing the pattern of your marriage or you will end up divorced.
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