http://isyourspousecheatingonyou.com/2009/06/why-you-might-want-to-save-your-marriage-after-he-cheated/ save your marriage help Mon, 30 Aug 2010 07:55:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://isyourspousecheatingonyou.com/2009/06/why-you-might-want-to-save-your-marriage-after-he-cheated/comment-page-1/#comment-266 cassie Thu, 17 Jun 2010 00:01:02 +0000 http://isyourspousecheatingonyou.com/?p=458#comment-266 I suspected for quite a few years but didn't have the proof to confront him, lots of late nights and over night trips, most are required for the job that he has, it took me the better half of two years to gather enough evidence, and sd cards from his camera and phone downloaded all evidence and gathered all motel receipts. then I asked him what is going on? he denied everything and started to get angry, then I told him I'am giving you a chance to tell me the truth, right now. so please tell me. and he still denied it so I started handing him, all my evidence. He finally broke down and told me that he had been seeing two women over the last 6 years.. like an idiot I told him we could try to work things out, but as the months went by and the humiliation and shame started to settle in , I finally had to tell him to move out, for me rebuilding my pride and self respect, came at a price, losing a marriage.. but I just have to keep telling myself HE LEFT ME A LONG TIME AGO.!!! I suspected for quite a few years but didn’t have the proof to confront him, lots of late nights and over night trips, most are required for the job that he has, it took me the better half of two years to gather enough evidence, and sd cards from his camera and phone downloaded all evidence and gathered all motel receipts. then I asked him what is going on? he denied everything and started to get angry, then I told him I’am giving you a chance to tell me the truth, right now. so please tell me. and he still denied it so I started handing him, all my evidence. He finally broke down and told me that he had been seeing two women over the last 6 years.. like an idiot I told him we could try to work things out, but as the months went by and the humiliation and shame started to settle in , I finally had to tell him to move out, for me rebuilding my pride and self respect, came at a price, losing a marriage.. but I just have to keep telling myself HE LEFT ME A LONG TIME AGO.!!!

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