Marriage Problems – Remember Why You Fell In Love With Her
When your marriage hits trouble, it’s very easy to bail, walk away and never look back.
Most marriages go through troubled times and discovering you’re at a point in your marriage, when your wife is either constantly screaming at you or freezing you out, is tough! If you feel you’ve done everything to try and find out what’s going on, why her attitude has changed towards you, you might feel like the woman who’s been giving you the eye across the photo-copier at work holds some comfort.
After all most guys just want someone to love and someone to love them back! It really is that simple! I don’t care what kind of games guys play and what kind of macho posturing they perform, at the end of the day they just want a warm body to hold at night – yeah…but which warm body!
Guys, when trouble hits and you feel that you can do nothing right to please her or make her happy, then take it back to the beginning.
Take it back to when you were dating and you fell in love with her. Remember what it was that made you appreciate and love her – there are reasons why you chose this lady to be your wife and those reasons don’t disappear easily.
Accept that there’s possibly something wrong for your wife for her not to be responding to you as you’d like. Don’t sit back and wait for the storm to blow out, get in there and get her to talk to you about what’s going on for her.
Let your wife know that you’re there for her and there’s nothing she can’t talk to you about. Make sure that your wife understnads that there’s a safe place she can go to for comfort and support and YOU are that place!
This is what marriage is all about – the good times and the bad times!
And at all costs, say no to the hottie at the photo-copier, it will only hurt your marriage!
