Top 20 Classic Cheating Spouse Excuses
…is yours here?
- You weren’t there for me, you were busy with the kids/job/friends, whatever, I just needed someone to be there for me and she was.
- Men aren’t suppose to be monogamous anyway!
- You drove me to it with your constant nagging, questioning, snooping!
- She’s just a friend!
- You let yourself go and got fat!
- She’s great in bed, she gives me head!
- She wanted me, she threw herself at me!
- She made me feel like a man!
- We only talk, we don’t actually do anything!
- It just happened!
- It doesn’t mean anything, you have nothing to worry about, I’m not leaving you!
- I just wanted some fun!
- It’s just cybersex, it isn’t real!
- But I still love you!
- I felt stifled in our marriage!
- We don’t have anything in common anymore!
- I want to feel 20 again!
- Young girls have more energy and are just hotter.
- I don’t love you anymore!
- I thought you were having an affair, so I had one!
…and a ton more.
The point is DO NOT let your cheating lying spouse put the blame for their low life behavior on you! Yes problems and rifts appear in marriages, but when they do the first goal should always be to sit and talk together and try and find a way forward.
Going out to cheat on someone you’re suppose to be in a monogamous and committed relationship with is a surefire way to cause pain, anger, frustration and deep problems.
So know this, just because your spouse has a line of an excuse, doesn’t make it acceptable and nor is it your fault!
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