Is Emotional Cheating Really Cheating?
So is it? What do you think? Yes? No?
I think without a doubt that if you are emotionally cheating on your spouse then you are cheating on your spouse! Period! Emotional cheating is akin to being a little bit pregnant. You’re either pregnant or you’re not pregnant. No gray areas.
Here’s Why I Believe Emotional Cheating is Cheating
- If you’re spending time with someone other than your spouse and you can’t tell your spouse about this person, then ask yourself why!
- If you’re talking to this other person about parts of your life that you wouldn’t normally share with a casual acquaintance, then ask yourself why.
- If you’re thinking about this other person and they’re occupying a big part of your private thoughts, ask yourself why.
The day that you start hiding a ‘friendship’, from your spouse you’re on dangerous ground. You’re allowing someone else to walk into the sanctity of your relationship/marriage and that can only be a problem for the future. How would your spouse feel if they found out that you were possibly discussing parts of your life with someone else? Someone they had no clue about?
If you cannot come home and answer these two questions in all honesty, then you’re cheating on your spouse:
“Honey how was your day?”
“What did you do?”
Does it mean you have to tell your spouse about every little detail of your day? No! But the significant parts yes. It’s what healthy couples do to keep their relationships happy. Remember, it’s been proven that the route to misery and broken relationships lays plenty in the keeping of secrets.
Is emotional cheating really cheating? Hell, yes!
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