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By Mo On February 6, 2010No Comments
A sexless marriage is a tough marriage to endure for anyone. Statistics show us that on average, a couple who are living in a sexless marriage are living in an unhappy marriage and it usually is only a matter of time before one of those involved asks for a divorce and walks out.
Of course, there are no absolutes. There are a few marriages, where the couple have come to an understanding about how they want their marriage to work. The agreed no sex marriage, that these few and far between couples agree on, work, because they both completely believe in what they have agreed to.
If one of the party in a sexless marriage has doubts, regrets or down right objections to living in a no sex marriage, then there will be problems. Having sex, making love, whatever you want to call it, is a natural human form of expression and for many, both men and women, it is goes against everything that they believe in and feel to live in and unhappy marriage where there is no sex.
If you are in this kind of sexless marriage, where you have gone along with your spouse to keep the peace, or because you hoped your spouse would change their mind eventually, then you have to sit down with your spouse and let them know how you feel. You cannot bottle up your feelings and your physical needs to suit your spouse. so if you feel that you have been coerced into a sexless marriage, then speak up.
If there was no agreement to the no sex marriage, things just fizzled out and slowly declined into nothing, then you have to stand up and again take the lead in putting back the passion into your marriage. This kind of sexual decline between a couple who have been together for a while is very common. However, if you or your spouse is struggling with the lack of a physical relationship in your marriage, then again, you are headed for major problems and maybe even divorce.
Again, talk to your spouse about rekindling your sexual passion for each other. It could be that your spouse feels the same as you and doesn’t know how to bring up the subject. One of you has to start the conversation and as you are the one reading this article, then you must be the one to start the discussion.
The fact is that a sexless and unhappy marriage is usually not a marriage that will last. Start today and begin changing the pattern of your marriage or you will end up divorced.
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Happy Marriage Recipes to Stay Married
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By Mo On February 5, 2010
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I’m sure when you went into your marriage you never thought that one day you’d be looking around for happy marriage recipes to help you save your marriage? Nonetheless, here you are, years later, wanting desperately to find a way to save your marriage and stay married to the spouse that you still love.
There’s no point beating about the bush on this! If you don’t solve this problem your marriage is doomed. Divorce is a fairly easy process these days, especially if neither one of you oppose it or has an axe to grind. Yes it’s more times than not a traumatic process, but it’s fairly easier to obtain a divorce. So let’s get to work before you find yourself divorced and facing life without the spouse you still love.
Your first happy marriage recipe is to understand that you will get nowhere without good solid and honest communication between you and your spouse. To save your marriage you must be able to talk openly to your spouse and they must be able to do the same with you.
If one or both of you feel that the other doesn’t allow them to speak, then there will be an inevitable break in the ties of the marriage. What this means is that your spouse must feel that you will not only give them the space to talk about whatever they need to, but you will also LISTEN!
There is no point in your spouse talking to you if you don’t listen and take note of what they are saying. To save your marriage, you must make your spouse feel as though they can come to you with anything and you will listen.
Now of course, it doesn’t mean that you have to agree with everything your spouse thinks, it just means you have to listen and offer a safe and loving ear.
Another happy marriage recipe that so many people over look, is that they don’t spend enough quality time together. Remember when you were dating? You fell in love because you spent time together doing things together that you both enjoyed. To save your marriage, you must start spending fun times together.
Too often career choices and a growing family take over the space that you once had just for the two of you, if you truly want to save your marriage, then carve regular quality time for the two of you to do things together and let nothing (unless it is a genuine emergency) take that time.
The bottom line of finding happy marriage recipes that will help you save your marriage, means that the two of you have to be on the same page, at the same time. Do you have to agree on everything? No! But you do have to want the same things and you do have to find a way to get those things from within the marriage or there really is no point.
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Stop a Divorce and Save Your Marriage
By Mo On February 4, 2010
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We all know the statistics are not great for marriage. More and more people are looking around trying to find out how to save a marriage and stop a divorce than ever before. If this is you and you’re one of those looking for help to stop a divorce and save your marriage, then the fact that you’re prepared to actually do something about it is in your favor.
However, make sure that what you do is correct and not some lame misguided attempt that will only further push you and your spouse towards divorce.
One of the main things that you have to do to save your marriage and stop a divorce is to accept your part in the break down of your marriage. Don’t make the mistake of blaming only your partner for what has gone wrong. As they say, “it take two to make a marriage and it takes two to break a marriage!”
Even if your spouse had an affair, the blame for the state of the marriage should not be laid solely at your partner’s feet. The truth is that there was clearly something lacking in the marriage in the first place that contributed to your spouse cheating. Of course a cheating spouse should never fully be blameless, but you have to accept, if you’re serious about saving your marriage, that there was something wrong before your spouse cheated.
Once you’ve accepeted your part in the breakdown of the marriage, to save your marriage you have to forgive yourself. If you can’t forgive yourself how do you expect your spouse to be able to forgive your mistakes.
You also have to be prepared to forgive your spouse for their mistakes. Depending on what your spouse has done to contribute to the break down in the relationship, this is going to be tough, but you have to forgive if you’re going to move forward.
To stop a divorce you’re going to have to open up to your spouse and do so honestly. Don’t make the mistake of lying and saying what you think your spouse wants to hear so they will stay. This will only backfire on you later on and your attempt to stop a divorce will also backfire.
The truth is, if you’re sincere when you talk to your spouse and you have a plan that you can present them with about how you are going to save your marriage, then you stand a really good chance of saving your marriage.
The mistake that so many people make is to not be sincere and to have no plan. If you’re serious about saving your marriage and about really stopping a divorce, get a proven plan to help you to do just that.
Repair and save your marriage by using one of the best marriage repair guides available.
Saving your marriage is possible, but you do need a proven plan to be successful!
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Tiger Woods – Cheating Spouse
By Mo On December 21, 2009
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Well with daily revelations about Tiger Woods’ activity as the mega cheating spouse, you have to wonder what his wife Elin will now do!
Apparently it is the sheer amount of cheating that has left the woman reeling, not to mention the fact that the cheating with some of these women went on for YEARS!!
Of course, we know on this site and from the emails that we get here, that Tiger Woods is not alone in his rampant cheating ways! Spouses all over the country are regularly caught with their pants down in the wrong hotel room, with the wrong person!
Would you stay or would you go? Tiger Woods’ Wife Elin.
